Become a Resident
You are not alone.
Substance abuse is a public health crisis impacting millions of Americans, with no family untouched by the disease of alcoholism and drug abuse. For women especially, the need for safe, supportive environments to break the cycle and reclaim their lives has never been more urgent. Alarming rates of addiction and a staggering 60% relapse rate after treatment reveal the critical role sober-living homes play in helping women maintain lasting recovery. Gratitude House provides a nurturing, empowering space designed specifically for women who are committed to a sober lifestyle. Apply today to take the next step toward building a strong foundation for long-lasting sobriety.
Requirements
- Sobriety: Applicants must have maintained 30 days of sobriety, achieved either through inpatient treatment or by attending 30 AA or NA meetings within 30 days supported by a sponsor.
- Employment: A job or a strong readiness to secure employment upon moving in is essential.
- Financial Readiness: A $50 security deposit and two weeks’ rent are required upfront (Total=$300).
- Medication-Free: Applicants should not be using mood-altering or addictive prescription medications.
- Commitment to Recovery: Above all, applicants should have a genuine desire to stop drinking and using substances, with a commitment to working a 12-step program and an attitude of gratitude.
House Rules
Residents are welcome to stay as long as they need for up to one year as long as they can follow these simple but important guidelines:
- Stay sober
- Attend daily AA and/ or NA meetings
- Work the steps with an AA or NA sponsor
- Employed for at least 20 hours a week during the day
- Complete chores
- Attend 7:30 am morning and 9 PM evening check-in everyday
- Honor 9 pm curfew
- Pay rent on time
- Contribute positively to the household
- Be an ambassador for Gratitude House, helping to serve others
Rent is $125 per week and includes room and utilities, with coffee and snacks always available.
Benefits
The mission of Gratitude House is to reduce the rate of relapse by prviding a safe, supportive, and beautiful home for women committed to 12-step recovery.
- Physical & Emotional Well-being: A structured, serene home environment encourages sobriety, daily self-care, and emotional resilience.
- Spiritual Growth: Grounded in 12-step program principles, Gratitude House emphasizes service, gratitude, and spiritual development, providing daily check-ins, and community gatherings.
- Social Connection & Fellowship: Residents join a vibrant St. Louis recovery community known for service, unity, and generosity, with thousands of AA and NA meetings available. Women at Gratitude House live alongside others with similar goals, building mutual support and friendships that last.
- Personal Development: Professional volunteers provide professional growth opportunities like wellness programs, financial literacy training, and career guidance - equipping residents with tools for self-empowerment and stability.
- Independent Living Skills: Residents gain independence by managing chores, curfews, and finances while enjoying a full kitchen for cooking and grocery storage. Volunteers frequently bring delicious, home-cooked gourmet meals to enhance the homelike experience.
- Female Fellowship and Recovery Network: Unlike many sober-living residences, Gratitude House feels like a true home and remains a lifelong resource for women even after they move on, providing continued support, guidance, and a strong network.
Gratitude House is more than a place to stay—it’s a welcoming community where women can grow, thrive, and look forward to a fulfilling life in sobriety.
Application Process
1. Email gratitude@gratitudehousestl.org and request an application.
2. Schedule an interview.
3. Complete the next steps outlined in the interview which generally include meeting all of the requirements and providing documentation.
4. Upon official admission, pay security deposit ($50) and two weeks rent ($250) to secure a space ($300 upfront).
5. Collaborate with House Manager on move-in logistics.
We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us as you trudge the Road of Happy Destiny.
Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 164