Become a Resident

Gratitude House may be exactly what you need for this new chapter in your life, if:

You want to end the loop of relapse.

You want something better for yourself.

You love learning.

You want to be challenged so you can grow.

You are ready to rebuild your life from the inside out.

You are looking for friends who expect more of themselves and inspire you to do the same.

Requirements

Applicants must have 30 days of sobriety by move-in.
A job or a strong readiness to secure employment shortly upon moving in is essential.
A $300 non-refundable deposit is due upfront. This includes the deposit and the first two weeks rent. Residents pay $125 per week which includes, rent, utilities, and all of our educational and therapeutic programming.
Applicants must not be using any controlled substances as Gratitude House maintains an abstinence-based environment. Residents must pass a drug test and breathalyzer on the first day.
Most importantly, applicants should have a deep desire to stop drinking and using substances, with a commitment to working a 12-step program everyday.

Program Expectations

Residents are welcome to stay as long as they need for up to two years as long as they can follow these simple but important guidelines:

Stay sober.
Attend AA and/ or NA meetings daily for the first 90 days.
Meet with a sponsor once a week and work the steps.
Employed for at least 20 hours a week during the day.
Pay rent on time* and complete daily and weekly chores.
Honor 9 pm curfew Sunday-Thursday, and 10 pm on Friday and Saturday.
Attend all educational programs, house activities, and events.
Complete 10 hours of community service a month.
Contribute positively to the household.
Be an ambassador for Gratitude House, helping to serve others.

* Rent is $125 per week and includes room, utilities, and all therapeutic and educational programming. Food is not included, but coffee and snacks are always available.

Application Process

The process is typically pretty fast if you follow these steps; an admission decision can usually be made within 48-72 hours from application.

Complete the application online. This should take about 15 minutes.

Tip: Answer every question thoroughly and honestly. Leaving things blank, providing vague answers, misrepresenting or failing to disclose could result in delaying the process.
Once your application is received, we will contact you by email within 24 hours to schedule an interview.
Complete the next steps outlined in the interview which includes reference checks.
Upon official admission, pay security deposit ($50) and first two weeks rent ($250) to secure a space ($300 upfront).
Collaborate with staff on move-in logistics.

The Promises

Physical & Emotional Well-being: A structured, serene home environment encourages sobriety, daily self-care, and emotional resilience.
Spiritual Growth: Grounded in 12-step program principles, Gratitude House emphasizes service, gratitude, and spiritual development, providing daily check-ins, and community gatherings.
Social Connection & Fellowship: Residents join a vibrant St. Louis recovery community known for service, unity, and generosity, with thousands of AA and NA meetings available. Women at Gratitude House live alongside others with similar goals, building mutual support and friendships that last.
Personal Development: Professional volunteers provide professional growth opportunities like wellness programs, financial literacy training, and career guidance - equipping residents with tools for self-empowerment and stability.
Independent Living Skills: Residents gain independence by managing chores, curfews, and finances while enjoying a full kitchen for cooking and grocery storage. Volunteers frequently bring delicious, home-cooked gourmet meals to enhance the homelike experience.
Female Fellowship and Recovery Network: Unlike many sober-living residences, Gratitude House feels like a true home and remains a lifelong resource for women even after they move on, providing continued support, guidance, and a strong network.

Gratitude House is more than a place to stay—it’s a welcoming community where women can grow, thrive, and look forward to a fulfilling life in sobriety.

We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us as you trudge the Road of Happy Destiny.

Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 164