Become a Resident

You are not alone.

Substance abuse is a public health crisis impacting millions of Americans, with no family untouched by the disease of alcoholism and drug abuse. For women especially, the need for safe, supportive environments to break the cycle and reclaim their lives has never been more urgent. Alarming rates of addiction and a staggering 60% relapse rate after treatment reveal the critical role sober-living homes play in helping women maintain lasting recovery. Gratitude House provides a nurturing, empowering space designed specifically for women who are committed to a sober lifestyle. Apply today to take the next step toward building a strong foundation for long-lasting sobriety. Click above to complete an application. Once your application is complete, we will contact you to schedule an interview.

Requirements

Sobriety: Applicants must have 30 days of sobriety by move-in.
Employment: A job or a strong readiness to secure employment upon moving in is essential.
Financial Readiness: A $300 non-refundable deposit is due upfront. This does include the first two weeks rent.
Medication: Applicants must not be using any controlled substances, including those prescribed (e.g., Suboxone, Adderall, Xanax, etc.), as Gratitude House maintains an abstinence-based environment. Other prescriptions like anti-depressants may be fine but all subject to review.
Commitment to Recovery: Above all, applicants should have a genuine desire to stop drinking and using substances, with a commitment to working a 12-step program and an attitude of gratitude and service.

House Rules

Residents are welcome to stay as long as they need for up to one year as long as they can follow these simple but important guidelines:

Stay sober
Attend AA and/ or NA meetings daily
Work the steps with an AA or NA sponsor
Employed for at least 20 hours a week during the day
Complete chores
Awake by 7:30 am morning and honor 9pm curfew
Attend evening check-ins 4 nights a week
Pay rent on time
Complete 10 hours of community service a month
Contribute positively to the household
Be an ambassador for Gratitude House, helping to serve others

Rent is $125 per week and includes room and utilities, with coffee and snacks always available.

Application Process

1. Click “APPLY TO BECOME A RESIDENT” above or below and complete the application. This should take about 15 minutes.

2. Once your application is received, we will contact you to schedule an interview.

3. Complete the next steps outlined in the interview which generally include meeting all of the requirements and providing documentation.

4. Upon official admission, pay security deposit ($50) and two weeks rent ($250) to secure a space ($300 upfront).

5. Collaborate with House Manager on move-in logistics.

The process is typically pretty fast; an admission decision can usually be made within 24-72 hours from application.

Benefits

The mission of Gratitude House is to reduce the rate of relapse by prviding a safe, supportive, and beautiful home for women committed to 12-step recovery.

Physical & Emotional Well-being: A structured, serene home environment encourages sobriety, daily self-care, and emotional resilience.
Spiritual Growth: Grounded in 12-step program principles, Gratitude House emphasizes service, gratitude, and spiritual development, providing daily check-ins, and community gatherings.
Social Connection & Fellowship: Residents join a vibrant St. Louis recovery community known for service, unity, and generosity, with thousands of AA and NA meetings available. Women at Gratitude House live alongside others with similar goals, building mutual support and friendships that last.
Personal Development: Professional volunteers provide professional growth opportunities like wellness programs, financial literacy training, and career guidance - equipping residents with tools for self-empowerment and stability.
Independent Living Skills: Residents gain independence by managing chores, curfews, and finances while enjoying a full kitchen for cooking and grocery storage. Volunteers frequently bring delicious, home-cooked gourmet meals to enhance the homelike experience.
Female Fellowship and Recovery Network: Unlike many sober-living residences, Gratitude House feels like a true home and remains a lifelong resource for women even after they move on, providing continued support, guidance, and a strong network.

Gratitude House is more than a place to stay—it’s a welcoming community where women can grow, thrive, and look forward to a fulfilling life in sobriety.

We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us as you trudge the Road of Happy Destiny.

Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 164